When conflict arises, avoid using blameful language towards your partner as that invites negativity into the situation

Written By shane smith

Conflict is inevitable in relationships, but if dealt with in a healthy, productive, and respectful way, it can bring you closer as a couple and make your relationship stronger.

Communicate assertively, take responsibility for your own feelings and actions, and focus solely on the issue at hand.

Discussion:

  • What does “take responsibility for your own feelings” mean to you?

  • What does it feel like to recognize your feelings in the situation?

  • Are you relieved?

  • Do you feel more vulnerable?

  • Do you feel proud?

  • How does this help emotionally charged situations?

When conflict arises, avoid using blameful language towards your partner as that invites negativity into the situation.

Marriage and Relationship Education is a learning opportunity, much like you would do in any other important life event. Check out the video for couples on YouTube: https://youtu.be/xyuUl-JnIhM.

Tune in next week for more discussion about relationships and mental health. 

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Written by Shane Smith
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