What is the difference between resolving an issue and managing an issue?

Written By shane smith

"Pick your battles” is often given as advice for avoiding unnecessary conflict, but if you apply this advice to serious issues, it can be detrimental to your relationship.

Pride, bias, and defense mechanisms prevent us from dealing with conflict in a healthy, productive manner. But it doesn’t have to be that way. There are strategies you and your partner can use to effectively deal with conflict in your relationship.

Dealing with conflict in a healthy, productive, and respectful way, can bring you closer as a couple and make your relationship stronger.

Discussion: Consider conflict resolution vs. conflict management:

  • What is the difference between resolving an issue and managing an issue?

  • Is it a failure if you and your partner can’t resolve a conflict?

  • Are there some conflicts that need to be managed because they can never be completely resolved?

  • How can you show your partner respect in the midst of conflict?

  • What do you need to feel respected?

  • Why is it important to be conscious of respect?

Take note of what new strategies helped and where you each need to be more mindful. By doing this, you and your partner are being accountable for the application of these skills into your life and thus strengthening your relationship.

Marriage and Relationship Education is a learning opportunity, much like you would do in any other important life event. Check out the video for couples on YouTube: https://youtu.be/xyuUl-JnIhM.

Tune in next week for more discussion about relationships and mental health. 

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Written by Shane Smith
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